We all have those friends. The ones that are madly in love after 15, 20, 50 years. So what’s their secret? Were they just lucky to meet their “soul mate?”
I know, for me, I was lucky. I met my amazing husband and he had clarity about what he wanted and was able to blaze the path for our relationship. But, you don’t need to wait for “luck,” you can be the one with the vision and manifest your dream relationship. In fact, I highly recommend it.
Wouldn’t you love to wake up every day next to your partner and feel deeply connected to them and aware of the ways you enhance each others lives?
Manifesting love, whether you’re in a relationship, or looking for a relationship, requires three things: forgiveness, clarity, and action.
Forgiveness of the past, your past relationships, past arguments, past heart breaks, is essential to enter and act in a relationship in a clean way. If you drag around with you the weight of everything that’s gone awry in your romantic world your relationship will feel heavy. Forgiveness gives you the opportunity to be light and present with what is happening right now. You might be surprised with how nice right now can be.
Clarity about what you want in a relationship is also very important. If you’re not in a relationship, and are looking for one, knowing the essence of relationship you are desiring will help direct your efforts and draw toward you what you want. I know that when I met my husband he was very clear that he was looking for an “ecstatic relationship.” It set the stage for what we created in a big way.
If you’re already in a relationship, being clear about the way you want to feel in the relationship and bringing that energy into the experience helps a lot. As well as being clear about the life you are co-creating together.
Action is crucial to manifesting anything in life, and love is no exception. If you’re looking for a relationship action might look like: making a vision board, getting on Match.com, telling your friends and family that you’re “on the market.”
If you’re already in a relationship then action often looks like: spending quality time together, prioritizing the relationship, making effort to meet their relationship needs, and taking care of yourself so that you can show up fully.
I love love and relationships, and have a lot more to say about it ☺. Some of which I shared with Nicole Moore for her free virtual video summit, The Lasting Love Series. I’m so honored to be on the panel of 25 amazing experts sharing their secrets to creating true love that lasts.
Nicole keeps it tight and right with each interview being just 30 minutes that are jam packed with tools and tips you can use right now to create the love you want.
The summit is April 8th – 23rd and is totally free, I’d love to have you join me.
PS. The Lasting Love Series covers things from finding your soul mate to conflict resolution to reigniting passion and intimacy. If you’re ready to create that love that you desire, sign up now!