You’re very clever, but I’ve got this.

The other day we were talking about giving yourself over to your Light (if you missed it – come HERE). If you don’t lead with your Light, it’s like walking into a cave with the torch behind you. Inevitably, there’ll be something shadowy about your interactions,...

Always here (not in a creepy way)

When we last chatted about your Inner Light, I said it has three important characteristics.  It’s intelligent.  It always tells the truth.  It always has your highest good as its mission.  There’s another quality of your Inner Light that I discussed but didn’t include...

Inner Light (Part 2)

In my last message, I wrote to you about accessing your Inner Light. (It’s a major theme in my Love Rising group.) Today I want to share a little more about what this light is, and why it is SO IMPORTANT to forge a conscious connection to it. It changes everything. If...

Inner Light (Part 1)

When my daughter Sabina was a toddler, her favorite song was “This Little Light of Mine” and she sang it all the time, off key, and loud. Like lots of kids, she didn’t have to do anything to “let it shine” – it just poured out of her. A decade later, while she’s still...
Have you been crying in public?

Have you been crying in public?

A client and friend of mine recently asked me how she could manage her feelings better. She was a self identified “flat-lined feeler” until very recently. She’d reached a place in her life some years prior where it seemed easier to close it all down – to not...
Have you tried this?

Have you tried this?

Today I’ve been thinking about the way Ritual has changed my life – by helping me get more present in the moment and to add meaning. Ritual is such an important part of all of our lives, whether we know it or not. I try to incorporate ritual into nearly every...
Mothers and Love

Mothers and Love

The days my two daughters were born were the two most amazing days of my life. The incredible intensity, the joy and excitement; there’s a raw beauty to these memories that nothing else can touch. Often when I look at my girls, currently 11 and 4, I feel flooded...
Abundance! Everywhere!

Abundance! Everywhere!

The other day Peter and I were on our way to pick our girls up at school and talking about some major unexpected expenses. It felt a little heavy and I decided that it was a good time to ask the universe for a reminder that abundance is everywhere. Like so many of my...
Permission to be

Permission to be

Here is the plan for life according to movies: we struggle and work hard to succeed, and then once we do, we’re happy.  Whether that’s in the realm of love, our careers, personal health, or just about anything, we’re taught over and over again that the hard part ends...
Feel The Vibration

Feel The Vibration

As part of our Dragontree Illuminator Training (the highest level of our Dragontree life coaching training program), we close our eyes and follow the sounds of a giant, beautiful gong. You may be wondering… What? But, it is one of the most profound elements of our...
Ignite Your Will

Ignite Your Will

“I have this great idea, I’ve even planned the shit out of it, and yet – I feel stuck! I seem to find my way forward” One of my new clients wrote this to me in her initial email. And it struck a cord – I see this. All. The. Time. It’s the human condition....
Valentine’s Day: A return to love

Valentine’s Day: A return to love

Hi, love— Happy Valentine’s Day! Today we celebrate love in a few different ways. Maybe you are cooking up something special for dinner tonight, or planning a night with friends. There are so many things about love to celebrate, even if the commercial aspect of this...
Assume Generously

Assume Generously

Assume Generously. Even though your grandma told you not to assume because it “makes an ass out of you and me,” assuming is part of life. In fact, if you avoided making assumptions, your life would come to a standstill. Upon waking up in the morning you’d have to test...
How does one bend time?

How does one bend time?

Time Time Time, See what’s become of me. While I looked around For my possibilities.  (did you know Paul Simon wrote that song sung by The Bangles?)  And that was 1987.  Can you imagine how many MORE possibilities we have now? That we face daily?  We now live in an...
Being “Clean” with Your Energy (video)

Being “Clean” with Your Energy (video)

In this video, I share context and tips for cleanly and responsibly sharing energy with others – while maintaining your own energy field to prevent fatigue, confusion, and other murky things that can happen when we intermix energy fields with others and lose...
An invitation from Autumn

An invitation from Autumn

Hey, love, How is Autumn feeling in your corner of the world? These days have a clarifying energy around them. There’s something about families, settling back into routines around school, or work, while preparing for cooler weather and darker days that make it feel...
What language does your heart speak?

What language does your heart speak?

At a recent gathering in my cozy space in Boulder, five of us sat closely together in a circle. One participant began to speak, but I couldn’t understand what she was trying to say. I checked in with the group, and it turned out no one else could hear her truth...
The Opposite of Loneliness

The Opposite of Loneliness

This summer has been a season of connection for me. Peter, the girls and I have traveled for reunions and picnics with our extended families, gone on vacations to reconnect ourselves, and spent a good amount of time playing and being with our friends here in Boulder,...
Be Gentle (video)

Be Gentle (video)

Our forgiveness of others is essential to our happiness, and our forgiveness of ourselves is essential for our growth. Your forgiveness is the most wonderful gift you can give, and you are the one who receives all the benefit. So how can YOU be your most loving,...
Seasons of Love

Seasons of Love

One of Peter’s teachers once told him to throw all of his books away and just go outside. “Everything you need to learn,” he said, “can be found in nature.” Did he mean it? Well, he may not have truly intended for Peter to ditch all of his books. (Although maybe he...